There were some discussions on couplers on the MR forums, and after one review. I decided to try the Sergent Engineering couplers. They look great, and are supposed to work well, but are expensive ($7 for three cars in kit form). I decided to try them, and ordered a couple of kits, an assembly jig, an uncoupling wand, and a bag of extra springs and ball bearings (strongly recommended).

After assembling them and loosing a bunch of the springs, I liked the way they worked. I've never been 100% happy with the Kadees, as I often get disconnects over delayed under track magnets, and using hand picks, including the Rix uncoupler, seldom seems to work the first time.

Here's a bad sample on YouTube, note the jerkiness of the loco is because it's never been run (I am trying to convert my Horn Hook equipped items first).

 

As I write this, I'm new to the hobby, so I don't have a huge fleet of cars to convert, so the conversion cost is minimal. I ordered a second batch of couplers, including one set of pre-built ones (just to see if they made a difference. So far, I don't think they do).

I switched a couple of small trains last evening just for kicks, and there are a couple of things I've noticed now with the Sergents that I have them and have begun to use them.

The one drawback is coupling; the couplers do have to be aligned to couple successfully. This requires a bit of experience (and I'm getting better, so it's becoming less of a problem). Kadees couple easily most of the time, the Sergents do as well only if they're aligned, but will do so on tight curves. This became more apparent and more work when making new connections, i.e. a different locomotive or car connecting than what was there previously, which requires alignment. On my test layout the yard is in the middle of a 4x8, so reaching in to align things wasn't the easiest, but you do get better as you go. With a more shelf like (narrower) layout that I'm building, this will hopefully be much less of an issue.

Working them in is also necessary for good operation, besides the suggested method in the instructions, I connect and disconnect each car time and time again on a straight piece of track until the action works smoothly.

I was recently asked by a you tube viewer what the strength was. Specifically, could it handle 50 cars, or a 70 car coal drag? I didn't know, so I inquired with Frank Sergent, who was not only kind enough to reply, but kind enough to allow me to post his response below.

Seventy cars that weigh 3 oz would need about [70 cars X 3 oz/car X 0.01) =
] 2.1 oz of pull on straight and level track. That will require one average
HO diesel to pull it. This isn't even starting to stress the couplers. No
problem.

Seventy cars that weight 3 oz going around a reasonable curve, and up a 3%
grade will need about [70 cars X 3 oz/car X (0.01 + 0.02 + 0.03) = ] 8.4 oz
of pull. That's about 3 decent engines to pull it. Again, we aren't
stressing the couplers at all.

Ten average diesels all pulling together will against a nail driven in the
middle of the track will start spinning their wheels at about [(10 X 3.5 oz)
= ] 35 oz of pull. The couplers will feel that for sure, but this is still
no problem.

Twenty really good diesels all pulling against the nail can generate [(20 X
4.5 oz) = ] 90 oz of pull before the wheels start spinning. That's enough to
make me nervous, but still below any sort of failure point as long as the
couplers are assembled correctly.

Forty really good diesels all pulling against the nail will generate 180 oz
of drawbar pull. That's just silly.

I don't think 70 cars would be a problem at all.

Back when Railmodel Journal was still alive, they printed a Performance
Summary of locomotives in what seemed like every issue that was pretty
useful. It gave tractive force measurements for all sorts of locomotives.

Thanks,
Frank

So there you go. That should answer most questions on the drawbar strength.

Other observations:

I've made good progress converting my units over to the Sergents, everything pictured below has them!

They really do look grand. Take a look at that CN boxcar!